Monday, October 10, 2011
Fed up to your forehead with hospital stories? Je sympathise! Just skip, or saute, today's skin-cancer chronicle... and scroll guiltily or sneakily or self-consciously to the end of the page, to read, instead, about Chief Grape... on second thought, who wouldn't want to read about a hunky French winemaker? (But I do have faith in you and I trust , lecteur or lectrice fidèle, that you'll read on ... in time to meet today's non-hunky caractère extraordinaire: Madonna of the Gurney!) (Photo of cabanon and "Mount Windy" taken last week, near Suze-la-Rousse).
: gurney, or metal stretcher with wheels
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A l'hôpital j'ai voyagé sur un chariot-brancard.
At the hospital, I traveled on a gurney.
Material Girl, The Garden Gnomes, and a few other colorful characters I encountered on my way to the operating room...
"Quel âge me donnez-vous?" "What age do you guess me to be?" Madonna of the Gurney fished, as she guided my bed-on-wheels with the finesse of a bumper-boat pilot.
Quel âge? I was speechless... which might be explained by the happy pill that had just lodged itself in my throat.... impossible to displace it no matter how many jumping jacks, no matter how many dry gulps I'd gargled, back in the accordion-door bathroom.
Madonna of the Gurney was impatient for an answer and her agacement was hinted at in the way she slammed on her bumper-boat brakes. Suspended awkwardly like that in the sterile corridor, I eked out an answer: "Je ne suis vraiment pas douée pour ce genre de devinette!" "I'm really not good at this kind of guessing game," I apologized, playing it safe, after it dawned on me that the misguessing of her age--or eventual erring on the plus side--might backfire into my very near future.
Madonna of the Gurney parked me abruptly beside the surgical block. She snapped her gum once or twice, stalling should an age-defying numéro appear my mind. When it didn't, she sighed, reached deep into her nurse's poche and slapped a surgical cap, or bonnet, onto my head, pushing up my hair as an afterthought. Her brusque gestures had me divining at more than her age: I guessed her mood (la déception, or disappointment) and wondered whether it was payback time, as I had earlier imagined!
If you missed it, read the short letter ("comme si comme ça") I wrote on returning from the hospital.
The year was 2008. This is Chief Grape, skin and bones after creating his first wine (indeed, he put himself into it!)... Find out why he isn't jumping for joie, in the story "Echantillon". Click here to read this selection from our archives.
Here he is playing basketball hamming it up with the harvesters. From Left to right: Vince, Robert (hidden), and Kevin.
Did you read about "Get To Know Each Other Night"? When harvest "uniforms" were handed out. Strangeley, no one snapped up the Fruit-of-the-Loom underwear. Read about what items they did snag, here, in the story "Glad Rags" or "Belles Fringes".
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Posted by: Sally Smyth | Monday, October 10, 2011 at 01:27 PM
Hilarious....the pill in your throat. Oh, you poor thing. Some of those nurses are a bit jaded. My dad calls them the 'iron maidens'. There are a few in every hospital visit. Thinking of you!
Posted by: Suzie | Monday, October 10, 2011 at 01:48 PM
Your Madonna surely was trying to get your mind off the pending event. I met so many "characters" when my MA! was in the hospital last year. It is another world and such a strange, foreboding one when we are on the gurney.
WORST pre-op experience: Wheeled into pre-op where nurse hooks up my IV. I look over and think "Gee, that seems to be dripping fast..." (dismissed it). A few minutes later, head nurse comes up to check on me exclaiming "Who hooked up this IV!" A young nurse responds and she is blasted for not having set the drip, telling her, "this patient is young, she is ok, but you could have endangered someone else!!" Oh, nice. Oh, did I mention that the reason the nurse checked on me in the first place was because I said I HAD to go to the potty! They got me up and I dragged the IV w/me to do my business. Oh, great, I thought...is this an omen? Freaky.
Moral: if something doesn't seem right, follow through: ASK!
Posted by: Pat Cargill | Monday, October 10, 2011 at 02:11 PM
i get your newsletter and read it every time. i remember your skin appt, and your having the mark removed. i remember your oozing bandage in the middle of the night. but i don't remember reading about your having to go to the hospital. i've been reading about your experiences since being IN the hospital, but what are you having done there? i hope by the time you read this, all is resolved and i am sure all will end well. by the way, there is a kevin in your photo of harvesters who looks like a kevin i used to know back in new york seemingly a hundred years ago. can you tell me his last name??
Posted by: terry | Monday, October 10, 2011 at 02:40 PM
Thanks for giving us an up close and personal peek into life in a French hospital. They seem to be a little more no-frills than here. Brad just had a little health scare that put him in a hospital overnight (less than 24 hours). He took his mind off things watching cable TV, they had a full menu available all day, they wheeled medical equipment into his private room for some tests. Of course, those flimsy hospital gowns never change. All of these little perks and hospital competition drive up insurance costs, but when you're not feeling well, these little touches also ease your mind.
Posted by: Julie F in St. Louis, MO | Monday, October 10, 2011 at 02:49 PM
There is no need to apologize for the cancer accounts. Many of us have been part of that with family members. So far, survival has been good. It is interesting to "see" (via your story) what French hospitals are like since I hope never to be a patient in another hospital anywhere! I am so glad that you are back home and recovering!
Posted by: mhwebb | Monday, October 10, 2011 at 03:40 PM
Kristin if you didn't keep us up on your recovery and what you've been through we'd all be worried. Most of us are too far away to bring over some soup or flowers but know that we are sending them in our thoughts and good wishes for you. Keep up your positive and funny attitude, it's what makes all of us get through the hard times.
Posted by: Diane Dainis | Monday, October 10, 2011 at 03:51 PM
I agree with the others; keep writing about your experience with cancer. Many are afraid to talk about it. The kids grandma on their dads side died of cancer a few weeks ago, and we never knew she had it. It was breast cancer that had spread very quickly. The family has always been tight lipped about everything. So though we have stayed in touch with the family some since their dad died, we didn't get to say goodbye. People need to talk about it. You need to write about it. It's a scary thing, but getting it out helps. Sharing with others helps. Take care of yourself, and have a wonderful week!
Posted by: Buffy | Monday, October 10, 2011 at 04:10 PM
Gorgeous opening photograph. Kristin!
And, we love to hear your stories. They are of life - messy bits and all.
Pat - that was eye opening!! Never be afraid to question les infirmières (instead of vise-versa as with Kristin's Madonna) - is the moral of that story!
Posted by: Karen Whitcome (Towson, MD. USA) | Monday, October 10, 2011 at 04:45 PM
I agree with Buffy - please fill us in on all the details you want us to know, dear Kristin. Cancer is such a taboo subject; everyone knows about it, no one talks about it. Much anyway. Probably because, like all topics converging on our mortality, it's too close for comfort.....BUT, like Karen says "..we love to hear your stories. They are of life - messy bits and all."
Posted by: Maureen | Monday, October 10, 2011 at 05:04 PM
I'm quite new here, but I'm certainly interested to hear how you are doing, Kristin. You have such a marvellous way of telling the story.
I also left a post & question on the "echantillon" story.
Posted by: suejean | Monday, October 10, 2011 at 05:25 PM
What a cast of characters you found in the hospital - it's like a caricature of the French, all there!
Your high-heeled roommate reminded me of my Great Aunt Lucille. She changed her nail polish (and toenail polish) every day to go with her outfits and had a shoe closet that would make Vogue magazine swoon.
Posted by: Amy Kortuem | Monday, October 10, 2011 at 06:34 PM
I am sending good thoughts and hope that your healing is going fast and well. I can just imagine how good the warm blanket felt at that moment. I admire your honesty in not guessing the nurse's age. I would have probably guessed a ridiculously young age just to get on her good side!
Posted by: Leslie | Monday, October 10, 2011 at 07:31 PM
Kristi, cancer is something that impacts every human family, including your online fan-family, and we are here to listen, support and to enjoy your so-special expression of your unique experience with it. Typically thoughtful of you to offer readers an alternative blog each time, of course; a Kristinesque gesture of kindness and self-awareness that warms our hearts even further, if that's possible. Great today also to see new pics of Smokey (and the gang), and to see Chef Grape's harvest-time trimmed-down good looks! Best wishes of Canadian Thanksgiving Day to all of you!
Posted by: Kitty Wilson | Monday, October 10, 2011 at 08:23 PM
Oh, indeed. Photos of Smokey.
Posted by: Lee Isbell | Monday, October 10, 2011 at 08:43 PM
Kristin, With your down to earth, simple, honest and sometimes funny style, you introduce us to another world which most of us, Francophiles, are interested in. Non, tu ne nous ennuies pas du tout avec tes histoires. C'est au contraire. Nous sommes tous tes fidèles lecteurs et lectrices. Mais où est notre chère Newforest? Elle me manque.
Posted by: Millie | Tuesday, October 11, 2011 at 02:30 AM
I'm hoping and praying you are healing well. We are NOT tired of hearing about your cancer surgery. You have no idea how many of us love you--even though we may have never met you--we feel like we have. I hurt when you hurt, you feel like a sister to me. Anything that you are going through in your life, I am interested in reading about it. I especially like the unique way you tell us about it! XO
Posted by: Shirley from Houston, Texas | Tuesday, October 11, 2011 at 03:36 AM
Just catching up; OMG! mille mercis for sharing your pill stuck in your throat experiences. I have been there! Fortunately I have a fabulous dermatologist who I see twice a year; after losing a very dear friend to skin cancer I know how important it is to be checked. Loving prayers are always with you.
Posted by: Devra Long | Tuesday, October 11, 2011 at 03:56 AM
Oh, dear Kristin, what a roller coaster you've been on! You are in our
hearts and in our prayers for a speedy recovery, and an abundance of perfect health in the future. Wish we could be there to fix you a petite tisane and help speed along that recovery with you!
Big hugs and much love from Seattle,
Annie and Mike
Posted by: Anne Brixner | Tuesday, October 11, 2011 at 06:31 AM
I'm sending positive thoughts and prayers for quick and good healing. I had surgery for a basal cell carcinoma on my back at the same time you had yours so have felt a kinship with you. All will be well in time and please continue to keep us updated.
Posted by: Susan Carter | Tuesday, October 11, 2011 at 06:52 AM
Loved the picture that you've painted of 'Madonna of the Gurney'! The nurses make all the difference in a 'hospital experience'.
P.S. Shouldn't it be 'la vengeance' instead of 'la vengence'? :)
Posted by: Anita | Tuesday, October 11, 2011 at 09:41 AM
Kristin, I wish I could have been your nurse the day of your surgery when you were so in need of a kind, caring and, hopefully, competent nurse. Those warm blankets are the next best thing to a warm hug. Amicalement, Cynthia
Posted by: Cynthia Lewis | Wednesday, October 12, 2011 at 02:59 AM