apocope + favorite blogs on France
Friday, May 18, 2012
A child care center in Flayosc. Seems like yesterday that my son went to the crèche... read on in today's story column.
une apocope (ah-poh-cowp)
: the dropping of one or more syllables (or letters) at the end of a word
Ado, MacDo, frigo, véto, resto... the French seem to love abbreviation. This is not to say that others of us are not guilty of truncating terms: in English, for example, we say fridge... Can you help list more wee words or apocopic terms in French or in English? Click here.
A Day in a French Life... by Kristin Espinasse
Note: the following story was written in 2008, when Max was 13 years old. Our son turned 17 yesterday...
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It has me dragging my legs to bed while the sun is still shining or putting too much symbolism into the shape of the odd cloud that floats by my bedroom window. The angst, though passagère, is palpable, present as a foreign fragrance in the air.
"Do you smell something rotting here?" I ask the boys while rooting around for the culprit, who I suspect is hiding in these kitchen drawers. I wonder about the strange scent: is it a rat's adieu that I am sensing? And yet...the mouse traps are empty....
Max and his friend, Jack, shake their heads, a bit disappointed to have missed a rotting-rodent sighting.
"No, there's nothing there, Mom." Max confirms. "No mice," Jack seconds.
"Are you sure?" I question, giving the kitchen drawers a good tug while searching for the source of the odor.
The boys insist that they can't smell a thing, and I notice how they slip out of the kitchen lest they catch the foul fever that has seized me.
Surely the smell of something "turning" pervades the air? Oh well. I shut the drawers with a heavy sigh and return to the heap of children's clothing that needs sorting. As the giveaway pile grows, that palpable, perfumed something returns....
I pull one of the little t-shirts close and breathe in the scent of Nine-Years-Old. How long has he had this t-shirt? Four years? It was oversized to begin with and now it is easily too small for my son. Why haven't I given it away yet?
I set the shirt aside and curl up into a chair. Staring out the window, I notice the clouds pass even faster than the years have. I get up, turn my back on the clouds, and search the drawers again; this time for sweets. I am going to make a cake and quit staring at Time.
Later that night, my ears perk up when my son calls for me. "Give me a kiss goodnight, Mom?"
"You bet!" I say, wondering whether this might be the next-to-last time he asks.
"You know," I remind my son, pushing a lock of hair out of his face. "You are still a kid."
"Yes, mom... I am still twelve."
Suddenly, the air seems a little lighter, sweeter....
"And you will still be a kid when you turn thirteen...." I remind him.
Max offers a doubtful look.
"No, Mom," Max argues. "I'll be a teenager."
That sweetness lingers for a moment before the scent molecules rearrange themselves once again, putting a bit of spice into their chemical makeup. I now understand what I have been sensing all along, and while I may have mixed feelings about it, one thing's sure: It smells like teen spirit.*
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On Children
Kahlil Gibran
Your children are not your children.
They are the sons and daughters of Life's longing for itself.
They come through you but not from you,
And though they are with you yet they belong not to you.
You may give them your love but not your thoughts,
For they have their own thoughts.
You may house their bodies but not their souls,
For their souls dwell in the house of tomorrow,
which you cannot visit, not even in your dreams.
You may strive to be like them,
but seek not to make them like you.
For life goes not backward nor tarries with yesterday.
You are the bows from which your children
as living arrows are sent forth.
The archer sees the mark upon the path of the infinite,
and He bends you with His might
that His arrows may go swift and far.
Let your bending in the archer's hand be for gladness;
For even as He loves the arrow that flies,
so He loves also the bow that is stable.
Posted by: Larry | Friday, May 18, 2012 at 08:49 AM
How about "sympa" for sympathique?
Posted by: Marie-Louise | Friday, May 18, 2012 at 01:10 PM
Or apéro for apéritif?
Posted by: Parisian Fields | Friday, May 18, 2012 at 01:27 PM
I like the idea of this and one comes across these every day. But at the time of wanting to recall some of them my memory fails me. Oh dear! What was I going to type next...
macdo=MacDonalds [Fr]
telly=television [GB]
Best wishes to all
Posted by: David Grundy | Friday, May 18, 2012 at 01:36 PM
I remember when I read this the first time, and thinking about how time flies by with our children. Babies, to kids,to teenagers to adults...wow, thanks for reposting this Bitter -Sweet memory.
Posted by: Marti Schmidt | Friday, May 18, 2012 at 01:44 PM
Le manif : demonstration (political)
Posted by: James, NYC | Friday, May 18, 2012 at 01:48 PM
As a writer, I live typo as in I love typographical error
Posted by: John Hall | Friday, May 18, 2012 at 01:53 PM
Dear Kristin,
I can think of no other writer who manages to evoke melancholy and humor at the same time. A teardrop barely leaves my eye when a smile lifts my cheeks towards heaven and pushes it back.
My son will turn 17 in two weeks. Each year since I've been following you, we are one in sharing these thoughts and feelings and it helps me to have you put it in words.
Bon anniversaire, Max!! Choose a delicio resto to celebrate!
** I'm curious about the sign at the beginning that seems to read "The Teeth of Milk"????
Posted by: Karen Whitcome (Towson, Md) | Friday, May 18, 2012 at 02:09 PM
memo(randum)
lunch(eon)
condo(minium)
gym(nasium)
mono(nucleosis)
cred(ibility) [as in "street cred"]
photo(graph)
chrysanth(emum) [U.K.]
The other way around, it's called aphaeresis:
(chrysanthe)mum [U.S.]
(omni)bus
Posted by: Passante | Friday, May 18, 2012 at 02:39 PM
Ordo, Sarko... (I guess it will now have to be Hollando!)
Could La dent du lait have anything to do with milk teeth?
Posted by: Cyndy | Friday, May 18, 2012 at 02:55 PM
loco for locomotive
vac for vacuum cleaner
Jag for Jaguar (car)
leccy for electricity
bra for brassiere
plane for aeroplane
phone for telephone
flu for influenza
vet for veterinary surgeon
vet for veteran (military)
Sandra
http://livingin22.blogspot.com
Posted by: Sandra E Chubb | Friday, May 18, 2012 at 03:11 PM
Best wishes for your son, on his B'day. I am sure, all parents reading this can really 'feel' your words.
Marvel at the way time flies and in the process, educates us.
Bon weekend.
Posted by: Rina Rao. | Friday, May 18, 2012 at 03:30 PM
Hi
demo for demonstrate and
reno for renovate
still sleepy maybe more later
-patty in Bethesda, MD today
Posted by: Patty Austin | Friday, May 18, 2012 at 03:41 PM
L'ordi for ordinateur, la tele for television.
And the newest amalgam, replacing Merkozy (Sarko and Merkel): Merde (for Merkel and Hollande).
And please tell me it's not going to rain every day the week after next, as Accuweather says! That would be too cruel!
Posted by: Jeri | Friday, May 18, 2012 at 04:01 PM
Kristin... and there is 'clodo' for clochard...
Judi in Tallahassee.. et bon weekend a tous!
Posted by: judith dunn | Friday, May 18, 2012 at 04:15 PM
Happy Birthday Max!
Another bitter sweet story-- thanks Kristin for sharing your life with us.
Your writing resonates with warmth, insight & love of family.
Be well.
Posted by: Faye Stampe, Gleneden Beach, OR | Friday, May 18, 2012 at 04:15 PM
These came to mind first:
Goodbye - bye
hamburger - burger
French Fries - fries
Coca Cola - Coke
Bicycle - Bike
Rehab - Rehabilitation
Doctor - Doc
Not really dropping letters necessarily, but shortening the words.
Worse is the use of initials (TGA in France for example) for so many things, especially in business jargon.
Posted by: Carolyn Chase | Friday, May 18, 2012 at 04:17 PM
Salut tout le monde,
BCNU (Be seeing you)
I'm cool in Flagstaff with the tall pines for a few days
Posted by: Herm in Phoenix | Friday, May 18, 2012 at 04:24 PM
lab for laboratory or cute dog
fax for facsimile
eco for ecology (eco-friendly goods, etc.)
sax for saxophone
pjs for pajamas
expat for expatriate
this is fun! that's all for now - enjoying beautiful, clear blue skies. hope all are well.
Posted by: Patty | Friday, May 18, 2012 at 04:38 PM
Sorry. I thought I posted but maybe I mis-typed
lab for laboratory or cute dog
sax for saxophone
eco for ecology (eco-friendly goods, etc.)
fax for facsimile
expat for expatriate
This is fun, thanks. Enjoying ;ovely clear blue skies here today near the nation's captitol. Hoping all are well! -patty
Posted by: Patty Austin | Friday, May 18, 2012 at 04:48 PM
Thank you for sharing your favorite French-themed blogs. I'm excited to check them out! Cheers~
Posted by: Carrie | Friday, May 18, 2012 at 04:54 PM
When I was a student in Grenoble, the student restaurant was the "resto u".
Posted by: Michael Reardon | Friday, May 18, 2012 at 05:21 PM
How about one of the first - vélo?
Posted by: GwenEllyn, the Brain Geek | Friday, May 18, 2012 at 05:56 PM
Oh, et biblio !
Posted by: GwenEllyn, the Brain Geek | Friday, May 18, 2012 at 05:57 PM
I love this post, Kristin. My "children" are in their 40s and 50s and grandkids range from almost 2 to 18, so I can relate to your nostalgia about kids growing up. I love your writing in this mini-memoir and both your feeings and your spirit shine through. As a dear friend tells me, keep on keeping on!
Posted by: Priscilla Fleming Vayda | Friday, May 18, 2012 at 06:14 PM
I forgot to add, for your Dad, Priscilla from La Nouvelle Orleans.
Posted by: Priscilla Fleming Vayda | Friday, May 18, 2012 at 06:17 PM
First of all, I loved the story about Max and "Smells Like Teen Spirit" - I still like Nirvana and I'm 67 yrs old - I guess I'll always be a 60's + rocker! Second, I adore the pictures of the 'puppies' - they are so adorable, they just have to still be puppies, although I know they are now more like teenagers! Third, here is an interesting blog about Paris http://www.theparisblog.com/ Enjoy your day - or I guess I should say 'evening' once you get this!
Posted by: Judi Boeye Miller, Lake Balboa, CA | Friday, May 18, 2012 at 06:55 PM
Biblio for bibliotèque
Sympa for sympathique
Ciné for cinéma
Posted by: Pauline Smith | Friday, May 18, 2012 at 06:58 PM
Hi dear Kristin,
Once again your words have so beautifully wrapped themselves around our hearts.
This story about dear Max(Happy 17th Birthday!)just captures time in all its fleeting essence--from 13 to 17 in the blink of an eye.We can feel your love for each other both then and now.
Tears sting my eyes!
Love, Natalia XO
Posted by: Natalia | Friday, May 18, 2012 at 08:16 PM
dodo - dort (sleep)
lolo - lait (milk)
cuppa - cup of tea
I remember this story and love how it resonates still, with your son on the cusp of young adulthood. A familiar ache we recognize as parents, all part of the process!
Posted by: Kate C | Friday, May 18, 2012 at 08:27 PM
Joyeux anniversaire, Max! And thank you, Krisitn, for providing me the flashbacks on the growing up of my two sons!
Posted by: Cheryl in STL | Friday, May 18, 2012 at 08:29 PM
sarainlepetitvillage.com. She's absolutely hilarious. And youhadmeatbonjour.blogspot.com, crafty and beautiful photographs. Those are my faves ('side from this one bien sur!)
Posted by: Liza in Ann Arbor | Friday, May 18, 2012 at 08:44 PM
Two words that come to mind:
dicto - dictionary
labo-laboratory
Posted by: Jan Roese | Friday, May 18, 2012 at 09:11 PM
How about:
-el for elevated train in Chicago
-repo for what happens to your car
-hypo for administering medicine
-metro for the subway in Paris and
-mob for scooter (mobylette)
Bon weekend, tout le monde!
Posted by: Joan L | Friday, May 18, 2012 at 10:25 PM
I like aristo for aristocrat. -- in American English - super for superintendant - emo for emotion - legit for legitimate -
Posted by: pat tinker | Saturday, May 19, 2012 at 02:35 AM
Bonjour,
Et "l'hosto" for hospital...
Bonne soiree
Posted by: Josee Fauteux | Saturday, May 19, 2012 at 03:04 AM
How about "faves" for "favorites" in English?
There is "d'ac" for "d'accord" in French. And the expression "au pifometre," loosely translatable as "by feel," can be "au pif."
My little boy's birthday is 2 week's after Max's, on May 31. And the "kid" will be 21! I have the same sense of the years flying by, as he will now be an adult in every respect - une "grande personne" who has been taller than I since he was about 12 1/2.
There is a French saying, "On a toujours vingt ans dans quelque coin du coeur." I think it's intended to mean that one can always feel young, in spite of getting older. At this time, I think of it as always remembering our children as children, and in some corner of our hearts, they will always be as they were at earlier ages.
Posted by: Marianne Rankin | Saturday, May 19, 2012 at 05:40 AM
hippo
rhino
croc
... out of Africa:)
Posted by: Rosemary | Saturday, May 19, 2012 at 06:41 AM
Just saw Maxim's facebook page, quite the young man, and ?ladies man?
Posted by: Phyllis | Saturday, May 19, 2012 at 06:16 PM
and WT for wine tours !
Posted by: julien | Monday, May 21, 2012 at 11:30 AM
I've heard "dico" for dictionnaire.
Posted by: Judie | Tuesday, May 22, 2012 at 10:51 PM