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Frenchman, baguette and bike (c) Kristin Espinasse French-Word-A-Day

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TODAY'S WORD

éternuer (ay-tehr-noo-ay)

    : to sneeze, or expirer bruyamment (breathe out loudly)

AUDIO FILE
One way you know you're becoming French is when you answer "à vos souhaits" after somebody sneezes. (Listen to Jean-Marc read the example sentence): Download MP3 or Wav file

Eternuer. Atchoum! Quand on éternue en France, on dit: "A vos souhaits" ou "à tes souhaits."
To sneeze. Achoo! When someone sneezes in France, we say: "Bless you."



A DAY IN A FRENCH LIFE... by Kristin Espinasse

After telling you to complete the sentence, "You know you are becoming French when (fill in blank)," I began to worry that some of you might not know how to answer.

"But I've never been to France," you might say. "How can I be sure I'm becoming French when I've not been exposed to all the French culture that I'm dying to be exposed to!!

Never Fear! Pas de souci! I've been digging through my photo archives to come up with pictures to jog your mind. Do any of today's photos sing to you?

Here are those pictures, along with possible ways you may be becoming French and not even know it!

1) (Observe photo at opening of this edition: You know you're becoming French when you buy baguettes  (even frozen ones) at every chance.

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      You know you are becoming French when...

 

2) The sight of French penmanship makes your heart do backflips: flip, flip, flip, flippity-dip!

 

Handwriting

3) You're an olive eater. Sure, the Greeks are olive eaters too, but you are a French olive eater! (Think little niçoise olives...)

Bis

4) You love bleu things, bis things, and boot things (or sabots like that yellow one, with the flowers in it).

To sidetrack a bit, and because you are hungry to learn all things French--I just know you are wondering about significance of "bis" when you see the little word written beside a house number. Well, let me tell you, after 21 years in France I learned this most significant detail last week.... when trying to find Beth and Guillermo's house.

"By the way," Beth had said in a second email, "I live at 9 rue (bla bla bla)."

But when Jean-Marc and I turned up at number 9, and a grand-mère opened the door in her little apron or tablier--a whoosh of pot-au-feu vapors streaming out beside her, I knew we were not chez Beth and Guillermo (who'd promised to make TAGINE!).

"Are you sure your friends aren't at 9 bis?" Grand-mère said....

Turns out they were! And the first thing I said to Beth after kissing her on both cheeks is: YOU ARE at 9 A! Not "9". NINE A!

So, dear readers, let's remember this one together, once and for all:

Bis = "A" when referring to a house number. The photo above, therefore, reads "65 A"

Chaise (c) Kristin Espinasse

5) You know you are becoming French when you are territorial....

 

The sign at the bus stop reads:  "Chaise à laisser sur place. SVP. Merci" (Don't touch this chair, please. It belongs here. Thanks!")

Cooking for the french

2007. Cooking for our first harvesters, back at Domaine Rouge-Bleu....

6) You know you are becoming French when your kitchen has little French touches here and there and everywhere 

 

Citroens

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Kissing Bench
One more way you are becoming French: you love ferronnerie d'art or ironwork of art. Here, in our shopping section, is a cozy kissing bench for the garden. It is also a wonderful conversation piece. I'm looking for one of these in France, meantime, for US readers, you can get one at Amazon!
 
Ways becoming french
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Jacqui@FrenchVillageDiaries

One way I know I'm becoming French is that I own Lycra and wear it to cycle the backroads of France.

John L Barbato

I dream in French.

Pat Bailey

I decorate with my French wine corks! I oten spontaneously speak French to an American without realizing it! I have Annie Sloan's book about decorating with chalk paint to have the French look.

Renée Sauvaget

I added an accent to my name (Renée).

Nina Wolff

I follow people in the mall, on the street, on a beach when I think I hear French being spoken, and get as close as I can to listen to them.

Sophia de la Mar

I know I'm becoming French because I now understand native French speakers speaking French better than etrangers speaking French!

Clare Jones

When asked what I can see, the first answer to come to mind is 'Que dalle!' - nothing at all.

Sandra Levine

Je pense en Francais!

Cyndy

In America, some French words overtake our American ones--receit, resto, ordo, frigo, veto, peripherique!

Renee Hatthorn

I live in Texas, so many people start a conversation in Spanish. Without realizing it, I respond in French. It's my default foreign language.

Maria Alonso

When you start counting with your thumb first and when you tell time in military time.

Stephanie Sabourin

I know I becoming more French because I find American quantities of food degoutant.

Gary Hoffman

When I walked 10 blocks in a steady rain on my birthday to have an almonde croissant and a cafe au lait for breakfast with my wife under an awning outside a small cafe in Paris.

Martia McNeill

I know I am becoming French as "Bien sur" comes out of my mouth without even thinking. Also, I just returned from France January 4th & thought I had my fix but was missing it within two weeks!

Jim Queen

When you're in a conversation in English, and the only word that says what you want to say is a French one.

Tess Gray

Je devenir francais. Je sais parce que présent chaque jour est le jour férié jour entre midi a quatorze heure demi. Et un oublier le travail le Lundi aussi! C'est tres important pour le sante je pense!

I am becoming French. I know this because now every day is a holiday between noon and 2.30pm! And forget working on Mondays also! Its very important for the health I think!

Nancy Jane

I know I am becoming more French as I pay more and more attention to the food I make, the quality of the ingredients I use and how much I serve. Also, wine has become much more important.
I enjoy it when I find that I am referring to things in French rather than English...I love that! And you,
dear Kristin, have certainly played a role as I turn more and more toward my inner frenchness. Thank you!

Mary Beth Dietrick

My Facebook news feed contains more items in French than in English.

Robert Powell

I know I'm becoming French because I look at 2CV used car ads and consider buying one.

Patricia Anzalone

I know I'm becoming more French because I take my darling dog everywhere and am upset to think she cannot enter certain shops with me.

Nancy Stilwagen

My English is peppered with French words, such as voila! and merci! My friends look at me strangely...

Audrey Wilson

I know I'm becoming French because we are woken up each morning to France Musique & we have a Boite aux Lettres in the style of an original Parisien one.

Eileen deCamp

Hi Kristin!
I know I'm becoming French because I love blue shutters, little stone cabanons, lavender, sunflowers against a bright blue sky, lace curtains, window boxes, FWAD and the lovely French language!

Mary Ann Boysen

I know I am becoming French when I stand in front of the Paris flower shops taking photos to paint. And when I long for another trip to France each day. And when I label France as my favorite place to visit. And when I think of the scrumptious croissants that no one in America can duplicate!

Alyssa

..because I "get dressed" to take the trash out!

Natalie

Hi Kristin, I never miss your posts it helps to feel French as well as wearing all sorts of scarves knotted in different styles and a drop of Chance Chanel eau tendre. On a good hair day it's all it takes and a bit of imagination and voila!

Thank you and a heartfelt congratulations on joining an editorial team at French Provincial.

Tish Tyler

For me, it's inserting a French word into a conversation I'm having with someone without realizing it!

Regarding "à vos souhaits": I learned at a language school in Tours that if someone sneezes a second time in a row, you say "à vos amours" and if the person sneezes a third time, you say "qu'ils durent toujours".

john h abeles md

I eat salad after the main course and drink wine in a water glass...

Marcia

I knew I was becoming French when I visited Paris last May and realized that when I spoke French there, my voice had that delicate lilt of emphasis that I so longed to acquire in my high school years long ago. It also helped a lot that I stayed with a French family too ;-)

Tom McCullough

I know I'm becoming French because I patiently explain to the cashier at Panera Bread that I don't want my baguette to go. The conversation continues, "No, please, don't cut it and toast it. Yes, a whole baguette. Please just give me a knife and some butter and jam. Yes, I'm eating it here with my coffee. No, it is not 'to go.' Thank you very much. No, not just a piece of baguette. The whole baguette. Yes, thank you!" Ah ces Américains!

Bunny Renkin

I know I'm becoming French because I no longer even think of using bottled salad dressing and will travel 10 miles and spend $6 for a little jar of Amora mustard, fine et forte, to put in my homemade vinaigrette!

Luci Lewisohn

When I see a dog in a restaurant, and smile.

Anne Irons

Coucou! I know I am becoming French because I often write a word with French spelling and have to stop and think of the correct English spelling.

Ronni Ebbers

I know I'm becoming French because my written 'ones' look like inverted 'Vs'.

Miranda

When it's movie night so I pick up a baguette and some Brie for the snacks and totally forget about popcorn!

Ronni

I know I'm becoming French because I inevitably feel sincerely puzzled, for the first minute, over the American restaurant use of the word entrée.

Kathi Koegle

I know I'm becoming more French because: 1) I end my emails to friends with "Mes amities"; 2) I use sugar cubes, rather than granulated sugar, in my morning cafe; and 3) I feel ecstatic when I find a piece of Quimper pottery at an antique store or flea market.

Susan Stafford

I know I'm becoming French because I bought a three foot high replica of the Eiffel Tower for my office.

Sherry

I brave the Chicago elements and walk to Patisserie Coralie. Tres bon~ http://www.creperiestgermain.com/bestfrenchpastries/index.html

Ken Scupp

My friends certainly think so, as almost every day when something french is in the news or a joke, a travel idea, etc., always shows up in my inbox. Also, so many similarities listed above that it's scary- especially the one about keeping a ear open for opportunities to speak french. Trying to learn the language- it is amazing how much history & culture seeps in along with it. What a bonus!

charles verrill

Je sais que je deviens francais parce que je lis Mediapart chaque journee!!

Claudette

My grandmother who raised me, as my father died when I was 6 and my Mom had to go work never spoke a word of English to me (I was 36 when she died).

Have always felt the strength of my French side!!

Leslie NYC

I could identify with so many of these comments!
My heart races when I see the blue-grey of French shutters and doors.
I used a match from my old allumettes box to light the stove and make a big bowl of cafe au lait this morning.
On my last visit to Paris, 2 different Parisiennes asked me for directions(which made my day).
I talk more about what I love to eat than what I avoid.
I am not lost when I have free time.
I get enough sleep.
I like to think seasonally, moderately, sanely.
I remember being wet and cold and jet-lagged and tired, walking around in Paris before I found a place to stay, and thinking I was the luckiest person in the world!

Sharon Upton

I know I am becoming French because I am obsessed with owning a pale blue Citroen 2cv!

Terry littman

I knew I was becoming French when I asked friends for apperos.

MariePierre

I know I have become totally French when, leaving a store, I pull the door instead of pushing it !

Sharon Marchisello

Parce que je parle francais avec mes chats...et ils me comprennent aussi bien que quand je leur parle en anglais!

Cheryl

I know I'm becoming french when I opened my store, Equipement de Vin, take my dog to work in the store, use french instead of English words daily, sante, enchante, tchao, de rien, I covet my Provencal linens, my Laguiole & Opinel knives and my La Rochere glassware inventory, I have a file that I keep all of my French customers (whether french or american) suggestions for my next french trip, to the rhone, my new favorite wine is bandol.

Kari Lee

I know that I'm becoming French when I head for the cookbook section in a book store and then single out the books with the FRENCH recipes only or those written by FRENCH chefs...ah, to make the perfect soupe a l'oignon or bouillabaisse or coq au vin all the time sounding like Julia Child!

Chris Miasnik

I know I'm becoming French when Canadian franglais hurts my ears, when not just any camembert will do, when I have to have Maille dijon mustard, when driving extra miles for a close to real baguette is no big deal, and of course, as someone mentioned, the true sign is when I dream in French.

Alynn Snyder

I know I'm becoming French because I have been to Paris and have fallen in love with anything and everything French - and I love to use French words and expressions - coucou, tres bon, moi? and peche mignon to name a few.

Linda R.

I know I'm becoming French when every single caption on my Pinterest board is written en français.

Jacqueline

Sometimes I dream in French.

dholtz

In my mind, I always translate what someone is saying to me into French

Kathleene E.

I know I'm becoming French when I wake up and realize I was dreaming in French. Also when my co-workers ask me what something means in French (this was unfortunately the case with the recent Je Suis Charlie headlines).

Charles Shinn

When quality of life is more important than money you are becoming French!

Lorraine

I know I'm becoming French because I can understand more and more dialogues in French films without looking at the subtitles. And then I try to continue speaking about the film in French after the film has ended.

Christine H

I know I'm becoming French when I pronounce English words that end in -ion with a nasal sound without even thinking of it. Nation, competition, passion, permission, ...

Janice Watson

I knew I was becoming French when my neck felt chilly and I found myself wrapping a long scarf around and around it.

Jane LeMaux

I know I'm becoming French because I enjoy wondering around vide grenier's on Sunday mornings buying up bits of rusty old farm tools for my brother to make into sculptures: see http://villamblardsculptures.blogspot.fr

Mary

I know I am becoming French because when I am in Paris native French people treat me as a local. (I.E. They stop to ask me for directions as if I live there and know the language.

Adrienne

I knew I was becoming French after the third day of French class my freshman year. I have been a self-proclaimed Francophile ever since! <3

Jennie

I know I am becoming French since, after being in Paris for three weeks, I am reducing the portions on my plate and I am losing weight. I am almost the size of a French woman d'un certain age. I try to walk to places as much as possible as well.

Lorraine

I know I am becoming more French when I insist on café au lait au lieu de café latté --Lorraine like the Quiche

Preston Lawrence Pittman

I knew I was becoming French when I was having a conversation in French with a tour guide in Chartres and she asked "est-ce que vous etes Francais, o no?" and also when it didn't seem strange to me that restaurants let dogs sit at the table with their owners.

Marti Hinman

GOOD QUESTION KRISTI. WELL, I THINK I AM BECOMING FRENCH
BECAUSE, I PLAY FRENCH MUSIC ALL THE TIME,I LISTEN TO MY OLD CHAMPS-ELYSÉES TAPES WHEN DRIVING,YES! TAPES I SAVED THEM LIKE DIAMONDS! I SUBSCRIBED TO TV5MONDE AND WATCH THIS CHANNEL 24/7 IF I CAN,NEWS,COOKING,FILMS ETC,ETC.
I WAS BORN IN BOLIVIA,CAME TO THE US 49 YEARS AGO, AND
MOST OF MY FRIENDS ARE???? FRENCH!! LOVE,LOVE! FRENCH
CUISINE,CELEBRATE WITH FRIENDS FRENCH HOLIDAYS ,MOST
RECENTLY LA FÊTE DU ROI AND.....DO NOT MISS READING THIS
TERRIFIC BLOG BY KRISTI!!

Mary H

I know I am becoming French when I look at the waves dancing in from the Atlantic Ocean and think, "France is just on the other side!!!"

Ulrike Lüdiger

I know I become French when I translate the French texts for the homepage of my friends in Luxemburg and try to talk to them in French.

Marti Hinman

KRIST,
I FORGOT TO MENTION, MY DREAM COME TRUE,THIS SPRING
WE ARE RENTING A HOUSE IN MOLLÉGÉS . YOU INSPIRED ME
BY READING YOUR BLOG AND LOOKING OVER AND OVER THE
BEAUTIFUL PLACES YOU PHOTOGRAPH.MERCI BEAUCOUP!!
MARTI

phyllis Morton

I know I am becoming French (more so) as I keep my garlic in a large garlic keeper from Betschdorf!!!!

sophie

I count my swimming laps in French!

Sandra L Vichery

Hi Kristi,
I know I am becoming French because I swoon whenever I see a label that reads "made in France" of course I want to buy the item immediately!
Usually it's food items such as those found in trader Joes but I do also have Le Crueset cookware on my wish list!

Bisous,
Sandy Vichery

Frank Levin

I know I am becoming French when I realized I always cook with Gros Sel de Guérande Gris Tradition. I can now buy it at Cost Plus World Market for,just about the same price as at SuperU. That and the fact that after fifteen trips to France I am no longer surprised by what I have ordered for dinner. Oh, yes, I also visited Soultz-Les-Bains in Alsace where my Great-grandmother was born.

Paulette in DC

I became French at birth in the USA, when my parents named me Paulette after my father. Then I knew I was French when my grandparents and parents only spoke Greek around me and I would respond with a oui, or Merci as a young child. I knew I was French when I flew to Paris at 14 with my parents and understood conversations around me and tried to hide on the Tour Eiffel so I could stay in Paris forever. As an adult, I've flown off to Paris at the drop of a hat for a baguette with sweet butter and ham and cheese, or a cafe or a chocolate croissant from Paul's. Now in my seventies, flights are few but I frequent Paul's at Tyson's Galleria almost every week to hear the accent, savor the flavors and become French again by osmosis. Your words energize me in all things French Kristi! Merci!

Joan

I love gizzards in my salad..... This is the first time I have commented after all these years of reading your blog. I feel like a friend. I know you so well. I think I should come out of the shadows of 'lurking' and say, 'Hello, my friend, you have brought me so much pleasure.Thank you.'

Arlene Sahraie

I know I'm becoming French because I end MANY sentences to MANY people with, 'n'est-ce pas?'

Charlene

I'm becoming French since I listen to France24 chaque jour, et je comprends (presque) tous ils dissent! Et je reponds des questions en francais sans pensait!

edie schmidt

Kristin:

When my husband goes out to his favorite coffee shop on his daily walk my one request is that he bring me back a croissant.

Edie from Savannah

Sandy Zeoli

I know I'm becoming French because my husband and I always speak of poulet and boeuf and sometimes oeufs.

Sandra L Vichery

P.S Congratulations on joining an editorial team at French Provincial Kristi!

edininny

I know I am becoming more French because I call my husband Patrique instead of Patrick.

Suzanne Dunaway

I know I am becoming French because I know how to ask to rent two matelas on the beach in summer instead of two matelots!

I also am very good at using my lips to say "ah, pfffft" about almost anything silly.
Also "ah, putain!" How terrible.

Jacqueline

I now use an "azerty" keyboard without thinking about where the letters are.

Lois

I think I have become French when I open an email to a group of girlfriends by saying "Mes amies" rather than "Ladies!" And it feels so much more natural than "Dear Girlfriends!"

Johnette LaBorde

I am a south Louisiana/New Orleans girl and Iknow I am French because I think in French especially when I do something silly like bumping my toe- I say aww. ma pied Je me suis blessé mon orteil

Marjorie Cannon

I know I am becoming more French because I am, again, planning a trip in August to France from Rancho Bernardo, CA, at the age of 88 and a half!

John in NYC

I know I'm becoming French when, pausing in the middle of a sentence, I purse my lips and say "euh..." instead of "um..."

Carolyn R Chase

"Bah Oui" creeps into your conversations everywhere, along with frequent "Je n'ai aucune idée", interspersed in chats with your kids - no wait, that latter may be more a sign of age than of the fact you're becoming French!!
Carolyn

Katia

I enjoyed reading a few of the comments from other readers. I'm becoming French by inserting French expressions into sentences at random times. Oh, and, j'ai presque oublié! We have just registered our older son for the French immersion program at his elementary school.

Julie Farrar

Felicitations on your new postition!

While I know I will never become completely French (I will continue to argue with French friends about stores being open on Sunday and past 7 p.m. and will still have an urge to eat dinner at 6:30) there are many signs I'm mutating to French. A few:

- not only do I plant red geraniums in my balcony boxes in France, I plant them at home in the U.S.

- I started buying CDs by Zaz https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Tm88QAI8I5A

- too often at home I start a sentence "In France"

- I wince every time I go through a produce section at an American supermarket

- I miss seeing dogs at restaurants

- I've set my GPS to French language

- I can't resist buying more scarves rather than necklaces

- I salivate at all of your photos of France

Paulette in DC

And did I mention that ever since college in the USA, I wanted to move to Vauvenargues? I love that the menus were still in French, that I could gaze out at the Chateau from my secret garden spot, that the colors of Provence are undescribable, that the scent of the jaune flowers envelope Mont Saint Victoire and that I raced the tide around Mont Ste Michel in my forties? Suffice to say, I have become French.....

Jim Lesser

I can tell I'm becoming French because I know where all the local marchés are by day so I can always shop for fresh ingredients and I plan the day's meals based on what's best in the market.

Lin Powell

I know I am becoming French because I subscribe to so many French blogs, I want to stop at every outdoor café and I have lavender soap in my bathrooms.

Lynne

I'm becoming more French by reading your blog and listening to the dreamy sound clips . Every snap you post sings to me ! A friend put me In touch with your blog, knowing I am anticipating a long-awaited reunion this fall (last we saw each other was in Nantes, 1981) with a college friend - in FRANCE!!

Ali

One way I know I'm becoming more "French" is because I'm willing to drive 45 minutes each week to the nearest Alliance Française to volunteer as a teacher's assistant in their children's French class. Due to my years serving as an after-school tutor, English Assistant in France, and tutoring refugees, I tend to work with the especially difficult students too! But I love the kids and the language, ça vaut le coup!

Denise Morgan

I am becoming more French as I anxiously await the arrival of your postings in my mailbox !
When received I totally immerse myself in your writings and photographs and let myself daydream . . .
. . . . in French !

Nita

Je rêve en français et je pense en français. Après tous ces ans, c'est magnifique ! J'achète des baguettes autant possible. Je les adore.

Cynthia P. Lewis

It happened years ago when my husband and I took our two French poodles to work every day (private physician's office). The patients loved them and the younger dog would do tricks for the children. For six years now I have audited classes at the nearby university and best of all, my friends have nicknamed me "Frenchy".

Congratulations, Kristin, for joining the editorial teams of "French Today" and "French Provincial" ... how exciting!

marilyn watkins

I know I'm becoming more french when I long to sit at an outdoor cafe with a croissant and cafe avec creme.

Lenore

When serving a meal, I say “bon appétit.”

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