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To be lazy in French & Why we should go to bed when the sun sets

Hibernation sleep sleeping dog Smokey golden retriever French champagne wine rack
Hibernation is life sleeping inside of us. L'hibernation, c'est la vie qui sommeille en soi. --Claude-may Waia Némia

Today's word: paresser
   
    : to be lazy
    : lounging, loafing

Click here to listen to the French sentence, above

Lately, I've noticed that when the sun goes down I'm ready to get in bed. But I wonder if 6 o'clock in the evening isn't an ungodly hour to tuck in. After all, shouldn't one be more productive--even if that means watching a sitcom?

Meantime, je me mets sous la couette and tune in to Absolutely Fabulous (the outtakes are my latest guilty pleasure, one that guarantees a belly laugh--and don't we all need that?). 



I was feeling sheepish about slipping off to bed si tôt, until I discovered my animals doing the very same thing at sundown. It began with my hens, who are now putting themselves to bed at 5 at night. You know when two industrious hens have called it a day it says something about natural instincts.

Do the stars have instincts too?

The French word coucher de soleil means the sun is going to bed...so if the sun's going to bed and my chickens and dog are too, maybe they're on to something and we should take note, me and you?

I no longer feel bad about tucking in around 6 pm. As for watching raunchy videos, once I get Edina and Patsy (the duo in the clip above...can you make out what they are saying about France and wine?) out of my system I promise to move on The National Geographic Channel (or whatever educational programs you might recommend. Your suggestions are welcome in the comments!)

Jean-marc sleeping la vie en rose

FRENCH VOCABULARY
le sommeil = sleep
paresser = to be lazy, to laze about
sous la couette = under the duvet, under the covers
le coucher de soleil = sundown
une sitcom = comédie de situation
si tôt = so early
l'envie d'hiberner = the desire to hibernate

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Hannah

There is a lot of research to support the idea that we should align ourselves with our circadian rhythms. Our bodies need a good 12 hrs on non-stimulation time to perform deep restoration. This means avoiding eating, bright blue activities (turn off the screens) and strenuous movement. Shift workers have heightened health risks because their schedules go against the body’s circadian clocks which are in our eyes, brain, and internal organ systems.

So, don’t feel lazy. You are improving your health and lengthening your lifespan.

Mike

Another chapter full of words that I learnt 60 years ago and have mostly forgotten!That's what I LOVE about what you write, Kristi. Please don't stop while I'm still able to read them.

Mille merçi.

Eileen deCamp

Hi Kristi,

I feel so tired once the sun goes down and it goes down so early now! I do love the coziness of winter though, snuggling under a blanket with the fire going!

Suzanne in Monroe, NJ

Now that I have retired I am getting 2 hours more sleep each night and I feel so much better and friends tell me I look 2 years younger. You’re productive during your hé other hours of the day so you’ve earned your rest. I too love AbFab!

Phyllis

I’m with you, I crash at 7:00.

Audrey Wilson

The electric blanket goes on at 9.45p.m & I feel a real pull to snuggle in there plus my current book or the crossword. Only trouble is that we don't want to get up in the morning !!!

Kathleen from Connecticut

With the sun setting earlier, I find that we are eating dinner earlier but not actually going to bed any earlier. I get hooked on my emails, internet or some YouTube, Twitter and FB or else reading in bed. But I do like to sleep-in in the mornings.

Kathleen

Judy Feldman

M’y husband & I love the evening. Time to kick back in a comfy chair, knit, and watch a series on TV. Just finished re-watching Downton Abby, a wonderful escape. Also recommend a series called The Bodyguard (Amazon), which is very gripping.

Judith Dunn

... OH , how I loved reading your entry for today! I had forgotten how much I loved Eddie and Patsy! I watched their TV series all through the eary 2000's and loved every one! They are the best tonic for anyone, anywhere. How I wish they were still on television. Their movie was 'okay' just not 'ab fab'!
As for going to bed early, being a night owl, it just does not work for me. We were just robbed of an hour of daylight due to the time change... )(*(%^)()(*&*)_! Thanks again for the wormhole into some of their hilarious out takes!

joie

If one goes to bed when the sun sets, do they also rise when it does? This could be a problem if you lived in Iceland. But the Iclandics to have a pretty neat Christmas eve tradition. They give each other books on that day and then everyone goes to bed to read and eat chocolate! I think the chocolate keeps them awake.

Andree MacColl

Though I could only understand about 10% of what Eddie and Patsy were saying to each other, I howled. It was all funny. I am a fan from way back. Thank you for including that in today's French Word-A-Day.
Andree

Kitty Wilson-Pote

My family and I are with you, Judith! Inveterate Night Owls, left to our own circadian rhythm, we fall asleep naturally around 3:30 a.m. and wake up naturally eight hours later. Efforts to go against this instinctive pattern do not go well at all -- brains and bodies rebel. I envy those who can get up for the day at dawn. Our pets may awaken us then, but after tending to them, we drift back to dreamland for that unfinished business of The PErfect Amount of Good Sleep!!

Debbie Ambrous

We have an expression in the south, and maybe other folks use it as well. Going to bed early is: "Going to bed with the chickens". Farm families went to bed with the chickens and got up with the rooster. People are not sleeping long enough now with too much stimulation, especially children. So, I wouldn't fault you for getting just what your body needs. Naps are not bad either. All the best to you and family!

natalia

Our dear Kristi,
I'm with you!
Our animals are certainly teaching us something!
What is more wonderful than snuggling under the covers(preferably on a chilly night)and either reading or watching TV program you like(?)
We have started having dinner earlier,too.It sort evolved from 7 to 6 and now,finally,to 5.
I feel much better without a full stomach before sleep.
Thank you for another wonderful post which is filled with food for thought.
Love
Natalia xo

Jf

Do you speak french at all?
Those are not how you translate them...

From someone whos actually french born and lives in an English speaking country.

Kristin Espinasse


Hello JF, 


Please let me know which words your are referring to. Your corrections are most welcome and helpful to all of us. 


To answer your question, I am a lifelong learner of French and I often make mistakes. 

Cerelle Bolon

This is what I too have found, Kristin. In the Arizona Summers, I awake at first light which comes early, as I love to go out into the yard and after the sun is up for only a short time, it is already too hot and so am house-bound for the long day. I find that with so many hours, I take an afternoon nap, a siesta, which other residents learned long ago.It is usually only 45 minutes and I awake naturally, but it seems to be needed. In the winter, I too, arise later, again at first light...but that comes so much later. I go to bed earlier and seem to need the longer sleep, so I think that we are certainly tuned to the rules of the sun. Don't fight it...Nature is telling us what is right.

Joanne

Bonjour, Kristi,
Here in the US (California)I watch several PBS series. One I found especially entertaining is The Durrells in Corfu. I also watched Poldark, and Victoria. I have my knitting needles, my journal, magazines, the local newspaper, and a book within reach of my bed which is my hibernation destination. It has several quilts made by my grandmother and I feel happy and safe under them, just like I felt when I was her grandchild.
I loved this post as I felt such an affinity to you and your readers because so many of them echoed your sentiments. Merci beaucoup.

Cynthia Lewis

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Lynne Schweitzer


Okay, I feel better now! I had been worrying about this same issue....wanting to retire when the sun goes down. Thanks for the post! Nice to know I'm not alone and totally weird :)

Katia

Kristi, you are not alone in feeling tired when the sun goes down. I believe in living seasonally and, whenever my evening teaching schedule allows, I go to sleep early in the evening. This is especially true in the winter months when the sun sets early. I have been studying Ayurveda for the past few years and was curious to learn early on that this ancient science affirms that we need more rest in the winter than in the summer, when we naturally tend to have more energy because of the longer daylight hours, more vibrant and fresh fruit and berries, etc. So, hibernate, hibernate! Wintertime is for warm blankets, fireside snuggles, giant books, comfort meals, limitless mugs of tea, and extra hours of sleep. Sending you my warmest regards from summer in NZ!

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