Combler: Satisfied or fulfilled in French (and in life)
Wednesday, August 07, 2019
10-year-old Smokey is happiest when he is in the presence of his pack, or "sa meute." More on happiness in today's post. (Photo taken from inside my Mom's studio)
Today's word: combler
=> to fill
=> to fulfill, satisfy
=> to fill a gap (in one's life)
une vie comblée = a fulfilled life
combler son retard = to make up for lost time
je suis comblée = I have everything I could want or wish for
Book News: Soon we will finish chapter 7 of our memoir about life on 2 vineyards and the toll it eventually took (having already tested our marriage). This next section will be posted soon and it is as raw and personal as the first 6 chapters. Click here for more about our story.
A DAY IN A FRENCH LIFE
by Kristi Espinasse
Sunday afternoon, après l'Eglise, I was sitting on a fold-out beach chair in front of Mom's place when a thought burst through my mind: Je suis comblée!
The bright pink beach chair was a present from Mom and the joyful feeling was a gift from the here and now, or l'instant présent. In this moment there was my mom, my son, and my daughter--and there was Jean-Marc who had just walked up to see why all of us were gathered.
All this activity began with Max, who had a day off from his current internship at Château de Pibarnon. Max has been repeating the same wish for months: Je veux peindre! He backed his wish by a mission: "and Grandma needs to get back to her canvas!" Finally, he went around to the side of the house, to Jules's studio, to try and drag her out of bed. "Let's go to the art supply store!" he said.
Oh but he had to tug! He had to tickle! He had to flop! In the end he managed to get Jules up and painting again! It was around 4 in the afternoon, after my own siesta, that I stumbled onto this lively scene: two easels, two artists, a dozen tubes of oil paint and a host of creatures looking on--all Mom's doves, who live in the trees above, three little hedgehogs watching from behind a stack of logs, and dear sweet Smokey.
Soon Jackie showed up. She wanted to paint too! The former art school student began by helping her brother... until the urge to begin her own toile propelled her over to Grandma, to borrow some fournitures....
"First go and change into your old clothes!" Jules said. Just like that, illico presto!, the youngest artist donned old shorts and a t-shirt over her bathing suit and was back before you could say Prussian Blue.
Circling around my family, admiring each of their paintings, I notice all three were working from the same photo of a parrot in a palm tree. How interesting to see each artist's interpretation!
Max, totally absorbed in his work, reproduced the picture using the same proportions and similar colors. Meantime, Jules's vision was grand: a bigger bird, wider palm leaves, and vivid colors!
Jackie's 'Perroquet dans le Palmier' was as delicate as lace! Using a palette knife like her brother and grandmother, her strokes were fine and detailed.
How the art reminded me of the artists themselves: one orderly, one generous, one delicate--all the qualities I admire in my son, in my Mom, and in my daughter....
Hélas, the painting session came to a sudden end when the mosquitos moved in! Quickly scattering, each artist hurried into the house, leaving the doves, the hedgehogs, and Smokey to admire the unfinished works. The next day, when I said good morning to our golden retriever, I noticed a splash of blue on his wagging tail. And when it came time to feed the birds in our garden, a few had crimson red nails after landing on top Mom's painting. And Jules herself had splashes of purple in her silver hair.
FRENCH VOCABULARY
après l'Eglise = after church
je suis comblée = I am filled with happiness
l'instant présent = the here and now
je veux peindre = I want to paint
un chevalet = an easel
une toile = a canvas
les fournitures = supplies
illico presto = right away (see the word-of-the-day post, here and lovely pics of the dogs)
le perroquet = parrot
le palmier = palm tree
peinture en plein air = outdoor painting
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What Joy! To enjoy haveing your loved ones so close to you. Thanks for shareing a peak into you family life.Give your mom a big hug for me.
Posted by: Susan Dayton Hodgson | Wednesday, August 07, 2019 at 04:41 PM
This reminds me of taking a drawing class as an adult after not having done anything in years. I just needed a teacher to say, "okay, kids, get out your colors!" and I was off, a 45-year old kid.
How inspiring to see three artists so eagerly and fluidly jump in and paint, still clearly in a creative groove.
Thank you for the recipe and example of une vie comblée.
Posted by: Leslie NYC | Wednesday, August 07, 2019 at 05:05 PM
Finally, we get a glimpse of Jules ~ and a word about her!! I understand how your life could sparkle in those moments with everyone happily together. Love the paintings!
Posted by: Susie | Wednesday, August 07, 2019 at 05:06 PM
And now you have made ME very happy and content. Just watching your family bond over paint, sunshine and affection left a HUGE smile on my face. Contentment, indeed. Thank you for sharing this moment with us.
Posted by: Linda D. | Wednesday, August 07, 2019 at 05:11 PM
Thanks for the reminder, Kristi, to pause, appreciate life's blessings, and find joy in the present. Some paint with brushes, but you paint with words. Always a treat! - Janet
Posted by: Janet | Wednesday, August 07, 2019 at 05:22 PM
What a spontaneous gathering of artists. It is so wonderful to see the different interruptions of the same image and your description is spot on. I love them all, but I wish we could see more Jules’ painting. You are inspiring me to get the paints or pastels out and be creative. It has been a long time since I have indulged. My creativity has been directed to cooking, gardening and other activities.
Thanks for the inspiration 🥰
Kathleen
Posted by: Kathleen | Wednesday, August 07, 2019 at 05:23 PM
What a great story! (Of course, I would love anything about painting🎨) a wonderful way to bring your family together. Thanks so much for including the photos. I can just feel the pleasure everyone was experiencing!
Posted by: Judy Feldman | Wednesday, August 07, 2019 at 05:26 PM
Merci, Janet 💕
Posted by: Kristin Espinasse | Wednesday, August 07, 2019 at 05:50 PM
I will be glad to give her your hug. She named one of her birds Suzie after you. I enjoy the stories she shares of your teenage years together.
Posted by: Kristin Espinasse | Wednesday, August 07, 2019 at 05:54 PM
Get out your paints, Kathleen! 🖌️💕
Posted by: Kristin Espinasse | Wednesday, August 07, 2019 at 06:08 PM
What a talented bunch your family is! Both paintings are so beautiful. I’m glad everyone had a chance to be together.
Posted by: Sandy Maberly | Wednesday, August 07, 2019 at 06:14 PM
Great photos. Beautiful family.
Posted by: Kathryn MacCullough | Wednesday, August 07, 2019 at 06:15 PM
Our dear Kristi,
Your beautiful words today just wrap themselves around my heart.
What a joyful afternoon!
Once again you have given us inspiration to look around our own lives and appreciate our loving families and graced well being.
Bless all of you always.
And!
THANK YOU!!
Love
Natalia xo
Posted by: Natalia | Wednesday, August 07, 2019 at 06:19 PM
Oh, what better than to discover art with one's grandmere, soeur, frere, a parrot, a few doves and three hedgehogs! HEAVENLY! What a lovely family you all are so lucky to have. And painting frees the soul...
Posted by: Suzanne Dunaway | Wednesday, August 07, 2019 at 07:00 PM
Thank you, Kathryn!
Posted by: Kristin Espinasse | Wednesday, August 07, 2019 at 07:22 PM
Kristi, did your mother cut her hair? She used to have a long braid. Love the shorter version and also loved the braid. She's beautiful!
Posted by: Mary L Kennedy | Wednesday, August 07, 2019 at 07:57 PM
Gee whiz, Kristi,
Everybody looks like they are creative! I feel that way when I am around my family, except that when I see my great nieces and great nephew ages 4, 5, and 6, hopping and jumping to music I tell them I feel like dancing! Now I am going to go into
that dark, cluttered hole of a closet and dig out the bag where I have stashed my watercolor materials and give it another try.
Merci--vous et votre famille m'inspirez!
Posted by: Joanne | Wednesday, August 07, 2019 at 08:04 PM
Mary, yes! She cut it herself. I love it shorter. Thanks for the compliment, which I will be sure she receives.
Posted by: Kristin Espinasse | Wednesday, August 07, 2019 at 08:29 PM
Hi Kristi,
I love this story so much along with the photos! It's so fun to see the different interpretations of the same scene! I love seeing your family enjoy time together! That's what life is all about!
Posted by: Eileen deCamp | Wednesday, August 07, 2019 at 08:40 PM
Dear Kristi,
Your family exemplifies affection, appreciation and the closeness of family. You all follow your own paths, which seem to bring you back together...to a happy place. And that is so uplifting to read about!
Posted by: Chris Allin | Wednesday, August 07, 2019 at 09:04 PM
Such an inspiring story ... and I LOVE the paintings. Would it be possible to see the finished oeuvres?
Thank you for the joy you bring us all!!!
Posted by: Maureen | Wednesday, August 07, 2019 at 09:11 PM
Such joy!So happy for you all!
Posted by: Anne Woodyard | Wednesday, August 07, 2019 at 09:15 PM
Did you know I was playing hooky from my paints today? Just the reminder I needed - seeing how much joy the act of creating brings to we humans - to say nothing of our curious animal friends. Into the studio NOW. Yes - the present moment is very enlightening. Thanks, Nancy
Posted by: [email protected] | Wednesday, August 07, 2019 at 11:11 PM
A beautiful story. Frank Capra’s classic movie said it best, “It’s A Wonderful Life.” Like most people, I have to remind myself of that periodically.
Thanks for the pic of Smokey
Posted by: Dave Kapsiak | Thursday, August 08, 2019 at 12:05 AM
How wonderful to have them all painting together. I loved seeing them all. Makes me want to try my hand at painting again.
Big hugs to all!
Posted by: Karen Cafarella | Thursday, August 08, 2019 at 01:06 AM
What fun! What creativity! My family's creativity does not include painting. I'm impressed! Thanks for sharing the moment.
Posted by: Joan | Thursday, August 08, 2019 at 01:59 AM
Love, love, love this joyous story of your beautiful family and their vie comblee. I could have just step into that scene and loved every minute! My dream is to paint one day, hopefully very soon! My goal for 2020!! Loved your photos and all that they shared!
Posted by: Judi | Thursday, August 08, 2019 at 02:10 AM
Words can’t express the joy I felt reading your words and especially seeing the photos of your mom, son and daughter. The loving bonds that unite them plus the creativity they- and you and Jean-Marc- display are so very special, and unique. It is insightful on your part to recognize this moment as being emblematic of a fulfilled life! Savor this moment.
Posted by: Elizabeth | Thursday, August 08, 2019 at 02:40 AM
Fab fab FAB - vibrantly visual even vivacious vignette today, dear Kristi -- radiant with the swirling contentment of a family awash in vital, peaceful, loving shared fun! I will be back a time or ten to rejoin you, the doting witness and recorder of this spontaneous expérience de pointe! Quiet joy, wow! Quel vignette!
Posted by: Kitty Wilson-Pote | Thursday, August 08, 2019 at 03:48 AM
So inspired by your family's talent and joy of being together . . .
Posted by: Georgia | Thursday, August 08, 2019 at 06:57 AM
Chris, really enjoyed your words about how following your own path brings you all together....to a happy place👌💕
Posted by: Kristin Espinasse | Thursday, August 08, 2019 at 07:52 AM
Beautiful scene you captured. Talent, Talent, Talent plus your Talent for telling the story ! Try rose géranium essential oil dotted on ankles, wrists, and neck to keep moustiques away...it will also ease the itch if you are bitten! Am loving your book. Wish you were still in Les Arcs
Posted by: Mary-James | Thursday, August 08, 2019 at 08:28 AM
Jackie is such a talented artist. I sure hope she goes back to school to become a designer, a couturier, or something else in the art or design field. She is bound to be good at it, and customers will appreciate her gift!
Posted by: Teresa | Thursday, August 08, 2019 at 08:57 AM
Thank you, Teresa. I will show her your note. It is a great encouragement!
Posted by: Kristin Espinasse | Thursday, August 08, 2019 at 10:14 AM
What a beautiful post! Xo
Posted by: Gaelle | Thursday, August 08, 2019 at 04:28 PM
A touching, living tableau ... so beautiful!
Posted by: K J Laramie | Thursday, August 08, 2019 at 06:54 PM
Life just keeps getting better and better. It's such a joy to watch your family. Thank you for sharing all these years.
Posted by: Amanda | Thursday, August 08, 2019 at 09:08 PM
Thank you, Amanda! And thank you for reading all of these years. That means a lot.
Posted by: Kristin Espinasse | Friday, August 09, 2019 at 07:54 AM
Les Arcs...thanks for the lovely wish, Mary-James.
Posted by: Kristin Espinasse | Friday, August 09, 2019 at 11:43 PM
Thank you for your lovely writings. I enjoy all the home stories. Merci, Joan Miller
Posted by: Joan Miller | Saturday, August 10, 2019 at 05:51 PM
Oh, what wonderful, talented artists you share your home with, Kristi. You must be so proud of them. Jackie's painting is absolutely breathtaking. Thank you for sharing this beautiful experience with us. I could see myself there, in your yard, silently moving about the easels, hearing the doves in the trees amid the relaxed conversation of your family, feeling the gentle breeze on my skin as the scent of paint drifts off into the distance.
Posted by: Katia | Monday, August 12, 2019 at 05:21 AM
Thank you, Katia. Your poetic words brought me back to that lovely day.
Posted by: Kristin Espinasse | Monday, August 12, 2019 at 07:16 AM
What a lovely story. You have a wonderful gift.
Posted by: suzanne | Friday, August 16, 2019 at 04:22 PM
Look how many people you have inspired to paint! The painting in your family all started with your Mom. She should be so proud. Kudos to Max for cajoling her to resume. I am glad to see that she is starting to reinvent herself, even if by baby steps at the moment. I hope she feels the joy I am sending her in my prayers. I will be more faithful. Hugs to all.
Posted by: Betty A Gleason | Saturday, August 17, 2019 at 05:57 AM