What to serve our Guests? (and "Bob's Your Uncle" in French)
Monday, October 10, 2022
The sign says “Open.” Coucou from La Ciotat. If you are visiting our city, why not stop into Jean-Marc's wineshop? Call ahead and he will be happy to see you at Le Vin Sobre Bar à Vin.
TODAY'S PHRASE: "Le tour est joué"
: that's all there is to it, and Bob's your uncle
FRENCH SOUND FILE: Click below to hear Jean-Marc pronounce the French terms in this post. Then scroll down to the vocabulary section to check your French comprehension.
A DAY IN A FRENCH LIFE by Kristi Espinasse
On Wednesday we entertained guests from Oregon and Wyoming. Audrey, from Portland, and her beau, Grant, joined us here at home for le déjeuner sur la terrasse. Planning for a meal still doesn't come naturally for me, so after a flurry of possible eats whirled through my mind like the autumn leaves outside our window, I put a stop to le délire and phoned my sister.
As soon as Heidi picked up, I rattled off my progress. "So I've made salmon, and then today I made pois chiches...and tomorrow I'll make la tarte aux tomates..."
"Wait--did you say you made salmon yesterday?"
"Yep."
"But when are your guests coming?"
"Tomorrow."
The long silence that followed made me defensive. "It's totally okay to make salmon a day-and-a-half before serving. It's just m-a-r-i-n-a-t-i-n-g!" I said, to sound fancy. While there is nothing sophistiqué about how I organize for guests nowadays, it's steps above what it was years ago, as a newlywed and clueless hostess. Back then, I would struggle through everything on the same day: drag our toddlers to the supermarket for dinner ingredients, hurry home to unpack groceries and clean the house. After chasing kids all day, I would prepare a multi-course meal for our invités, including the les amuse-bouches, l'entrée, le plat, la salade, le fromage, le dessert. It was exhausting. I was bad at it. My nerves were shot. No wonder I drank!
But back to the present: Wednesday's lunch went so smoothly it's a wonder I continue to shy away from inviting. When I stop to remember that serving others is an opportunity for growth, this new perspective is energizing. As my sister often reminds me: people are just happy to be there. Serve some good wine!
Jean-Marc popped the cork on a bottle of Pinot Noir from Domaine de La Mongestine, where our son is sales manager. "This is the best wine!" our guests said, raving about it. Oh really, but how was the salmon? you may be wondering....
Eh bien, we hadn't gotten to it yet. Our little festin began with some delicious pâté forrestière compliments of Audrey. Now, in all fairness (here begins a little side note to my sister...) how come Audrey can walk one hour to our house, under the midday sun--with pâte tucked inside her purse--but I can't serve Monday’s salmon on mercredi?). I'll leave you to chew on that.
Audrey's pâté from Carrefour was delicious. Next we had petits toasts de tapenade à la truffe, alongside some Italian green olives from La Maddalena. Miam, miam! And finally, slices of la tarte aux tomates, some chick peas, and du saumon au poireau now filled our plates. As we ate, we were eager to learn more about peaceful and beautiful Wyoming, from Grant, and Audrey gave us tips on how to get along in Portland in winter: "a jacuzzi and a fireplace are your best friends," I believe she said (or was Audrey talking about Wyoming and the minus 20 degree winters?). I was little distracted as a hostess, trying, as we ate, to control our erratic environment: les guêpes were busy hovering around la bouffe! As we swatted the winged interlopers I noticed the sun was now burning down on Audrey, but I didn't want to interrupt the conversation yet again. Thankfully Grant quickly solved the problem by offering his hat.
Chapeau, Grant! I thought, to which Audrey added "Et Bob est ton oncle!"
Et Bob est ton oncle?...
Heu, that sounded familiar. Was that some sort of code? Such as, Beware of Kristi's salmon? With that, Audrey laughed (was she reading my thoughts?). "Bob's your uncle is even funnier in French," Audrey explained, "so I've been saying it that way lately."
Ouf! So it wasn't the salmon. No, it could not have been. Because I ate that Monday Night Salmon all the way to Friday and, Bob's my uncle, it went down fine. And it looks like Grant and Audrey fared well, too, given they made it over to Jean-Marc's wineshop, the next day, to say goodbye before heading up the coast to Menton.
And there you have it or, as Audrey says et Bob est ton oncle. Thank you for reading today’s gastronomic entry, and look for the link to the tomato tart (following the vocabulary section, below).
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FRENCH VOCABULARY
A few words below are highlighted; click on them for an interesting read
coucou = hi there
le tour est joué = that’s all there is to it, and Bob’s your uncle
le déjeuner = lunch
la terrasse = porch
le délire = frenzy madness
l’invité(e) = guest
le pois chiche = chick pea, garbanzo bean
la tarte aux tomates = tomato tart
les amuse-bouches = nibbles
l'entrée = first course
le plat principal = main course
la salade = green salad
le fromage = cheese
le dessert = dessert
le festin = feast
le pâté forrestière = mushroom pâté
Carrefour = a popular French supermarket
le mercredi = Wednesday
miam! = yum!
la guêpe = wasp
la bouffe = slang for “food, grub, nosh”
Chapeau! = well done! Bravo!
heu! = hmm!
Et Bob est ton oncle = that’s all there is to it
ouf = phew
Read the Story Archives for photos, soundfiles, and more:
1. Recipe for the easy, delicious, 4-ingredient French tomato tart
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Posted by: Heidi stiteler | Monday, October 10, 2022 at 06:07 PM
Haha. Are you looking forward to your visit? I guess you will be in charge of cooking 😂
Posted by: Kristin Espinasse | Monday, October 10, 2022 at 06:12 PM
Hi Kristi,
I love your sister's sense of humor. LOL
I have forgotten marinating things in my fridge! :-)
Posted by: Eileen | Monday, October 10, 2022 at 06:21 PM
Saumon au poireau? Sounds very yummy! Will you share the recipe with your loyal readers one day? merci! xox
Posted by: Suzanne Codi | Monday, October 10, 2022 at 06:26 PM
This post is funny and useful ! :-)
Posted by: Beth Fiacco | Monday, October 10, 2022 at 06:35 PM
Most Americans have never heard the expression "Bob's your uncle" but I find all are totally charmed by it when they do hear it, wanting to know the origin -- which no one really does know in spite of various theories. I had a photography professor years ago who learned it from another British student and was so taken with it that he used it all the time!
And yes, it does sound very funny in French. How about "E Roberto è tuo zio"?
Posted by: Passante | Monday, October 10, 2022 at 06:42 PM
The full expression is Bob’s your uncle and Fanny’s your aunt. Used often in my Brit household
Posted by: Penny Thackeray | Monday, October 10, 2022 at 07:06 PM
You did just fine, darlin'....If the salmon was in the coldest part of the frige, even better! I love the tomato tarte, which I got from your blog, and make all the time, sometimes with cheese, sometimes with bacon, like a BLT on puff paste, haha.
Keep on cookin'. And I am always here if you need to know quick and easy things for guests. I have a new one that is SO EASY and my diners go wild....
You can find my recipes in PO Life onling mag of our region, if you have nothing better to do, haha.
Posted by: Suzanne Dunaway | Monday, October 10, 2022 at 07:50 PM
I've made your tomato tart, Kristi. I'm obsessed with tomato tarts and have tried dozens of recipes but I think that not only is yours the most simple, it is also the tastiest. Thanks for that keeper!
Posted by: Nancy A Reynolds | Tuesday, October 11, 2022 at 05:00 AM
I've also made la tarte aux tomates several times. My guests loved it as well. Yum! How nice to entertain your friends. Chapeau!! Thanks, Kristi, for keeping my world so rich and delicious. You're a dear one!
Posted by: Classis Waters | Tuesday, October 11, 2022 at 02:58 PM
Thank you, Classis! So good to see your note.
Posted by: Kristin Espinasse | Tuesday, October 11, 2022 at 04:29 PM
In my years over here I have found that Picard's is the hostess's friend. Just pick up something for the the appetizer or dessert. Everything doesn't have to be homemade. That's not what your guests will remember.
Posted by: Julie Farrar | Tuesday, October 11, 2022 at 06:57 PM
For "Bob's your uncle," I have always said, "C'est dans la poche!" but whatever works....
Posted by: Richard Kahane | Wednesday, October 12, 2022 at 07:05 AM
That is a good one. I will use it! Thanks, Richard.
Posted by: Kristin Espinasse | Wednesday, October 12, 2022 at 07:20 AM