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A DAY IN A FRENCH LIFE...by Kristi Espinasse
Dear Reagan,
I hope you enjoy these memories as much as I enjoyed your visit last weekend…
After a semester in Italy, my niece has finished her study abroad program. Instead of flying straight back to the U.S., she returned to spend three more days with us in France. Wherever my niece lands she brings her adventurous spirit with her and she needs little advance notice to be ready to explore: she’ll simply throw her hair back in braids and illico presto! she’s out the door.
As Reagan is the kind of person who says chiche—“I’m in!”—to just about anything, whether it’s sampling prickly oursins or trawling in Uncle Jean-Marc’s boat, we easily let the weekend unfold: wandering down to the calanque in Figuerolles, where we stumbled upon a movie set (a first for Reagan), hiking up to the sémaphore, a watercolor session on the sandy shores of Plage Lumière, or a spree to La pharmacie St. Jean for French lotions and potions.
The night before Réré flew home, we introduced her to a decadent French tradition. “Raclette,” I explained, “is a kind of grill that you plug in and set in the center of the table. Beneath it are a series of little pans, or, poêlons, where each person adds a slice of fromage en tranchettes. After the cheese melts, you use a small spatula to scrape it over a boiled potato and add the accompaniment of your choice: ham, salami, coppa, prosciutto. Mushrooms, onions, sliced peppers, and more can be added to the grill above….”
It’s a convivial and amusing way to gather for a meal. Depending on your table’s shape, it can be tricky to reach the grill, but Ana happily took charge of refilling Grandma Jules’s pan. Jean-Marc, at the end of the table, barely managed to set his pan beside mine—just in time to steal my just-melted cheese. Keeping an eye on my husband’s wandering hand, I listened as we all began sharing our favorite memories from Réré’s visit...
One highlight was an event at a beautiful seaside hotel, L’Hostellerie La Farandole, where Max had invited his cousin to a wine tasting. Not just any dégustation: it was the world-renowned Château de Pibarnon, and Eric de Saint Victor, the owner, was there to host. “We each had our own platter of cheese,” Reagan shared, “and we sampled several wines while Eric spoke. It was so interesting!”
The next day, Max met up with us for a randonnée along le chemin de Sainte-Croix, and we each brought our dogs, Izzy, Loca, and Ricci. The hills are bursting with flowers this time of year: cistes, lavande, immortelle, coquelicots, valerian, and yellow broom steal the show… until you reach the top of the colline, where the cliffs of Cassis are stunning against the navy blue sea.
We followed the dogs back down the path and returned to kidnap Grandma for lunch at Max and Ana’s: roasted chicken, gratin dauphinois, and a strawberry tart from the bakery—until I hinted it was time for my sieste.
That evening, as I served chipolatas and roasted vegetables, grilled directly on the oven’s slide-out tray, Max shared an amusing word for roasting pan: lèche-frite—literally “lick-fry,” named for the way the ingredients (often fries) are set there to catch the drippings from the rack above.
Lèche-frite reminds me of lèche-vitrine (“window licking,” or window shopping), something we never got around to with my niece. It seemed she had already licked windows in Italy for, after the raclette, Reagan handed out gifts. We gathered around the coffee table to accept the presents: a beautiful bracelet for Ana from Florence, a bottle of wine from Tuscany for Jean-Marc, pasta tweezers (for twirling and plating pasta) from Rome for Max, and two watercolor paintings: for Grandma, a postcard-sized painting of the coastline seen from le parc du Mugel; for me, a delightful watercolor of our house—complete with all the dogs and even the tourterelles! The whimsical painting reflected my niece’s personality: bright, happy, energetic, clever, and well-balanced. If this painting could talk it would shout chiche! Yes—to life and all it has to offer!
As I reminisce about my niece—with her auburn braids, striped socks, and that sparkling smile—I’m reminded of my favorite childhood heroine, Fifi Brindacier. Not just for her wild hair and free spirit, or for her creativity (though she has that à gogo), but for the way she says chiche to life—that playful French dare that means “I’m in!” Bold, imaginative, generous, and always up for adventure, Fifi is a reminder of the joy in being fully yourself.
See you next summer, Réré. Whatever we do, I’m chiche to join you—braids, stripes, and a spirit of adventure… just like yours.
Love,
Aunt Kristi
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FRENCH VOCABULARY
Click here to listen to Jean-Marc pronounce the French words below
chiche = I'm in! / game!
illico presto = right away
L’oursin (m) = sea urchin
la calanque = rocky inlet or cove
le sémaphore = signal tower / lookout station
la Plage Lumière = Lumière Beach
la raclette = a simple dish of (melted) cheese, potatoes, and cured meats
le poêlon = small pan
le fromage = cheese
en tranchette = in thin slices
la coppa = cured pork shoulder
le prosciutto = prosciutto / Italian cured ham
la dégustation = tasting (often of wine or food)
la randonnée = hike
le ciste = rockrose
la lavande = lavender
l’immortelle = everlasting flower / helichrysum
le coquelicot = poppy
la valériane = valerian (wildflower)
la colline = hill
la sieste = nap
La chipolata = chipolata sausages
la lèche-frite = oven drip pan
le lèche-vitrine = window shopping (literally “window licking”)
la tourterelle = turtledove
Fifi Brindacier = Pippi Longstocking
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Bonjour Kristi,
Thanks for such a fun post today! I enjoyed it so much and loved the paintings, especially the one with the pups on the steps and the photos are beautiful as always!
Blessings to you and your family! I love the word "chiche"
Posted by: Eileen | Thursday, May 01, 2025 at 02:34 PM
The watercolor of your home with the dogs and doves is so charming. What a thoughtful gift from Reagan. Your post captured how much you enjoyed her and her visit. I always enjoy your posts and this was especially welcome on May Day. A few years ago we were in Paris for a few weeks when friends from London arrived for a brief visit. Arriving on May 1, they came with a bin de muguet.
We have a bed of lillies of the valley under our river birches and right on time they bloomed this morning. Happy May Day!
Posted by: Suzanne in Monroe, NJ | Thursday, May 01, 2025 at 03:16 PM
What an artist Reagan is! The painting of your house is delightful. I noticed & recognized the dogs right away.
I saw a duplicate of some words in the email, but noticed here that you'd made a correction. However, I believe your first inclination was correct (sans the repeated words). "for me, a delightful. For me, a delightful watercolor ..."
By using the : (colon) and announcing the two paintings, it makes sense to keep the two together & separate with the ; (semicolon), rather than separating & adding an incomplete sentence.
"and two watercolor paintings: for Grandma, a postcard-sized painting of the coastline seen from le parc du Mugel; for me, a delightful watercolor of our house—complete with all the dogs and even the tourterelles!
I so enjoy reading your stories!
Posted by: Trina in St. Petersburg, FL, USA | Thursday, May 01, 2025 at 03:48 PM
Thank you, Trina. Your note is so helpful. Off to edit…
Posted by: Kristin Espinasse | Thursday, May 01, 2025 at 04:18 PM
Wow: your niece can do it all! The watercolor she painted for you is spectacular and shows impressive style and talent. Is Reagan studying Art at university, and/or perhaps she inherited some of Grandma Jules' gift?
Lovely and irrepressibly fun photos of you and your family, and Kristi, you're as beautiful as ever! Very happy that you all enjoyed your mini-vacation together.
Hope you received lots of brins de muguet ce premier Mai.
Posted by: NYC Trish | Thursday, May 01, 2025 at 04:31 PM
Our dear Kristi,
What a wonderful and fun post today(!!) Once again, you and your beautiful family wrap themselves around our hearts-- especially your love and devotion for each other-- and we thank you for sharing it with us.
( Also, needless to say, the gorgeous pictures and always helpful vocabulary!!)
Obviously,charming and lovely ladies run in the family ,as do gifted artists!
Joyeux Premier Mai! That is definitely what you made ours!
Blessings to you all
Arms tight around you.
Love
Natalia
Posted by: Natalia | Thursday, May 01, 2025 at 05:23 PM
I'm totally impressed with how adventurous your family is. I am world-traveling vicariously and thank you for clearing up a mystery for me. My local Lidl sold raclette makers. I was tempted but confused. THAT'S how it works. Ah hah!!! A local restaurant served what they called raclette but there was no scraping.... more like nachos. And isn't spring wonderful. Muguet here are just up with two leaves. Clothes line went up this morning and there's laundry drying in the sun. Sitting out, reading Year. Delightful.
Posted by: Karen in Northport, NY | Thursday, May 01, 2025 at 11:18 PM
Love the painting of your house!
Have you seen this?? So precious!, Swan and Harp!!!
https://youtu.be/x0qA3LNSIWo
Jesus' love all the days Claudia-Marie
Posted by: Claudia-Marie | Friday, May 02, 2025 at 12:12 AM
Hi Karen, Love your lively responses. Merci. Next time you see a raclette unit at Lidl, don’t hesitate. That is where Max and Ana got theirs. Thank you for reading and mentioning Year 💗. Enjoy the sunshine and the scent of fresh linen drying on the line.
Posted by: Kristin Espinasse | Friday, May 02, 2025 at 07:19 AM
Thanks, Claudia-Marie.
What a precious video. Just sent it to Mom. 💗🦢
Posted by: Kristin Espinasse | Friday, May 02, 2025 at 07:20 AM
A Renaissance woman, Rere! And wonderful artist. She could see greeting card designs easily! Beautiful hair, smile, brain! Lovely to have her in your family and we LOVE raclatte...
Posted by: Suzanne Dunaway | Friday, May 02, 2025 at 09:46 AM
What a wonderful time was had by all. I love, love the paintings.
Hugs
Posted by: Karen Cafarella | Sunday, May 04, 2025 at 02:24 AM
Regan sounds like a breath of fresh air- lifting everything and everyone she touches. She must love all of you so much to share her time with you and to give you special gifts that are meaningful to each of you. The post today was a delightful read. Thank you for sharing it with us.
Posted by: Jo-Anne | Sunday, May 04, 2025 at 05:15 PM
The painting of your house could be your next book cover. Fresh and forward.
Posted by: Sally | Thursday, May 15, 2025 at 03:26 PM
That painting of your house could be the cover of your next book. Wonderful! She has great talent! And she could teach us all to be an excellent guest.
Posted by: Lynn at Southern Fried French | Tuesday, May 20, 2025 at 01:54 PM